生命是一朵常开不败的花，那挫折必是滋润花的养分，没有经历过挫折的人生是不完整的人生；没有滋润它养分的花迟早也会枯萎。 痛苦和挫折是人生必然要遇到的两大难题，要想让我们的心的戈壁荒原开满鲜花，只有在遭遇挫折时排解痛苦，积蓄人生的力量为新的目标而奋斗，生命之花才会常开不败，生命的存在才会有新的更深刻的意义！
冰心说：“成功的花儿，人们只惊羡它现时的美丽。当初它的芽儿浸透了奋斗的泪水，洒遍了牺牲的细雨。”如果遭遇挫折，仍能以奋斗的英姿与之对抗，那么这样的人生是辉煌的。 当苏武被流放到北海时，北海的羊群咩咩地叫着，似在欢迎这位坚贞不屈大汉臣子。这十几年的痛苦如果可以当作是一次挫折，那么这次挫折无疑是痛苦的，可是这位放羊老人从未曾放大痛苦，于是十几年后，大汉的丹青上书写下了民族不屈的坚贞气节。
昭君出走大漠，丝绸之路上又多了一串驼铃的丁冬声，“千载琵琶作胡语，分明怨恨曲中论”不应该是她真实心态的写照吧！如果不赂画师，终至出塞算是一次挫折，那么是挫折换来了汉匈两地人民的短暂安宁。
苏武和昭君的举动应该是对直面挫折，缩小痛苦的心理的诠释。人生只有走出来的美丽，没有等出来的辉煌，因此直面挫折，化解痛苦才是我们的最佳选择。 没有必要因叶落而悲秋，也没有必要因挫折而放弃抗争。因为一花凋零荒芜不了整个春天，一次挫折也荒废不了整个人生。 人们常说，风雨过后，面前会是鸥翔鱼游的天水一色，荆棘过后，面前会是铺满鲜花的康庄大道。既然如此，我们还有什么理由“放大人生的痛苦”。
Life is a normally open unbeaten flowers, the frustration is moist spent nutrient, no experienced setbacks life is incomplete life; Without nourishment it nutrient flowers will wither sooner or later. The pain and frustration is life must meet two big problem, want to let our heart's gobi deserts filled with flowers, only in the setbacks to call the pain, the power of life savings for the new goal to struggle, the flower of life will normally open unbeaten, the presence of life will have new more profound meaning!
Bing xin said: the success of the flowers, people only so much struck with the beauty of it stands now. At the beginning it yaren soak the struggle tears, a sacrifice xueyu rain. If encounter setbacks, still can with struggle of heroic bearing fight, then life is brilliant. When SuWu was exiled to the north sea, the north sea sheep bleat, like to welcome the remain faithful and unyielding fellow servant. This more than ten years of pain if can be is a setback, so this setback is painful, but the old man from the flock not amplification pain, then ten years later, the big fellow of the book as wrote national unyielding faithful moral integrity.
Zhaojun flee the desert, the silk road and a string of gravel DingDongSheng, the thousand years pipa as HuYu, clear my resentment song should not be her true portraiture mentality! If you don't approach painter, and ultimately to fill is a setback, so it is defeat for whom the people of han and short peace.
SuWu and zhaojun's behaviour should be is to face setbacks, reduce pain psychological interpretation. Life is only get out of the beautiful, did not wait out of the brilliant, so to face setbacks, dissolve the pain is our best choice. No need for leaf fall and BeiQiu, also do not have necessary because of setbacks and give up fighting. Because a flower die the whole barren spring, a setback also ruined the whole life. People often say, after the wind and rain, will be before gull cheung fish swim of tianshui color, after the thorns, presence would be flowers for the road ahead. In that case, we have any reason for amplification life pain.